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CONSEQUENCES OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE I have discussed what causes child sexual abuse but today I will be talking about the consequences, that is how to know if a child abused. Most times, the child will start to scratch her vagina and urinating frequently almost bed wetting. She will start reacting to some things like not eating frequently. A child that loves eating and starts saying she is not interested in eating . Check the girl. Self injury is another. The child would have been injured in one way or the other because she was forced to have the sex. Also,the child will seeing sex as a normal, talking about it every time. She doesn't care about people around, she will start to move with guys, playing with them sexually. Masturbation will be a normal thing to her. Check out! Fear,anger, depression, guilt also will be the end. She just get mad at things that she ought not too,get scared and always feel guilty. Parent must watch out for the children reaction to things that you...

WHAT CAUSES CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE? There are many things that leads to child sexual abuse which will be listed here; Indecent dressings Broken home Peer pressure Maltreating the children Rejection and many more. If you refuse to show your child love and the only thing you can give her is to curse her daily,she will surely be advised by friends to have sex at an early age to be loved from an opposite. They believe sex is a means of showing love. Show love to your children. Let them feel you. Indecent dressing is another thing, parent just dress anyhow  for their kids. There are some cloths you're not meant to put on your child because men are moved by what they see,they don't want to know if she is a child or not. Be careful of the kind of cloth you wear for them. That doesn't mean you should dress anyhow for them,be modest and neat. Broken home is another issue. The child keeps looking for security and a way to feed herself and the only source of feeding is from a...

HOW A CHILD CAN BE SEXUALLY ABUSED PART 4? I have talked about rape,child marriage and today I'll talk about PROSTITUTION. Due to parent's inability to sponsor the child or raise the child effectively, the parent will sell the child into prostitution to make income. Most times, the child follows the order of his/her parent,when the father brings baby mama in and the mother brings in another man into the house, what do you expect the child to do? In one way or the other,the child's eyes has been abused and at a very young age,she will engage herself into prostitution because she sees nothing wrong in it. Prostitution is a means of abused for our younger ones and it needs to stop. Enough of slavery and child trafficking, help a child today .

HOW A CHILD CAN BE ABUSED (PART 3)? I wonder who came up with traditions and customs of the Hausa people especially the uneducated ones. How on earth will a parent look at their 8 years daughter and the only thing they could think of is to give her to a cleric in marriage. How on earth will you do so? Is it not painful? The only good you see coming out of your child's Jerusalem is to give her to a man who has three wives already and your innocent child to be the fourth person. That is a bad idea if you do not know. Repent. CHILD MARRIAGE is another way in which a child can be abused sexually. There is no way the child will be shown love by the husband that sex won't look like punishment to her. The girl who is not happy with such a decision will try to run away to secure her life but when caught is another issue. Why must you tamper with the life of this young girl? Allow her to explore. The cleric will now by force have sex with the young lady, it's an abuse be...

HOW A CHILD CAN BE SEXUALLY ABUSED(part 2)? Yesterday, I talked about four ways on which a child can be abused and I explained CHILD PORNOGRAPHY. Today,I will continue from where I stopped. RAPE. Most children that are from a broken home are always a victim of this act. They are been molested and raped because no one to cater for them or speak to. This children need you as their parent, be there for them. It is painful to see a child who is not orphan suffering from parent carelessness. Rape means having sex with other other party forcefully and this can be painful. The girl can be scared with gun or anything and she will be told not to inform anybody. I pity most parent that will tell one bike man that you don't know his source to carry your child to school and bring her back everyday and you don't know what's up with them. The bike man that doesn't care can use that opportunity to rape your child at an early age. The child is being abused in that way. Pare...

HOW CAN A CHILD BE ABUSED SEXUALLY? There are different means in which a child can be abused and it is common but we may not be conscious of it. A child can be abused through; 1. Child pornography 2. Rape 3. Child marriage 4. Prostitution There are other ways that a child can be abused but I'll talk on these four. CHILD PORNOGRAPHY There is a story of a boy that said his father abused him sexually everyday by making him to sit with him to watch pornography,no intercourse but he watches it everyday.  In one way or the other, the child will masturbate at an early age which may leads something else. Parent must be careful of what their watch and listen to. Watching pornography will destroy their ideology about sex. Parent must be careful of who they leave their child with. Do not corrupt the mindset of these children. They are too small for that.

AGE LEVEL OF SEXUAL ABUSE Girls experience sexual abuse at much higher rates than boys and more likely to experience forceful and injuries sexual abuse. The fact is that girls are easily turn up easily than boys that is girls are sexually active than boys. A little touch or kissing can land a lady on a man's bed. Be careful! Sexual abuse occurs at every age level but risk appears to manifest around age 6 to 7 and most common at age 10 (Finkelhor 1995). This is to tell you that an adult can be sexually abused,an old woman can be sexually abused but a child that is sexually abuse is open to more danger than adult. The child will be forced to be active through different means which will give an everlasting mark on the child. The child will be injured mentally, physically, psychologically, emotionally and others. Parent must he careful of who they give their child to because research made to known that most child sexual abuse are being done by relatives, friends, siblings and r...

WHAT IS CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE? Abuse means the misuse of a thing; it can be a drug, perfumes, drink, sex and many more. This means when you use a thing out of medical prescription or general acceptable way of doing a thing is called ABUSE. Today, we will be considering CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE. This means the involvement of a child in sexual activities that he or she does not fully comprehend the act or the child consent was not sought before the act. That is why, SEX EDUCATION is important. It is the activity between a child and an adult or another child who by age or level superior than the other. PARENTS, beware of giving your baby to a "trusted" friend that is ready to destroy your child's destiny. Child sexual abuse is the coercion of a child to engage in any unlawful SEXUAL activity. PARENT, keep your child safe. Child abuse is the exploitation use of children in prostitution or other unlawful SEXUALpractice. Children are easy to be molested and abused due to man...

IMPORTANCE OF SEX EDUCATION This is the concluding part of this topic but if you have any question or you need a material on this topic, you can private chat me. Today, I will be discussing the important of sex education. 1. It will curb the act of child sexual abuse. Children will be wise to the extent of knowing what to do? who to move it? Questions to ask and many more. There will not be abuse of any sort with your child. 2. It will limit unwanted pregnancy which leads to abortion. They already have the understanding of when sex should occur,they won't indulge themselves in it in their early age. 3. It will help them to understand value and stay holy. They won't bring disgrace to you. There are many advantages of educating them. It is expedient for parent to spend time with their kids and explain to them what SEX is all about. It is even if parent is bold enough to share their experience with their child for the child to know he is not alone. The PDF mater...

WHAT TO EDUCATE THEM ABOUT? Now that you have learnt about the relationship between you and your child, when to start teaching them about SEX. Today, you will learn about what to teach them. Research revealed that a woman can get pregnant and have a baby as soon as she begins ovulating and mostly that is your child can be pregnant a year after they first begin menstruating.  There is age difference for every child to start menstruating, but the early age is 8 years. This is the reason for you to start enlightening them about SEX. Be plain with them,do not hide anything from them. Start talking about puberty-- type issues at age 8. Tell them what changes will happen, when they will start growing breast? When menstruation will start and many more. If you lack knowledge in that area,get materials that will aid you. Read books about it.  Teach them how to protect their body parts such as mouth from kissing anyone, their breast from been pressed by anyone and...

WHEN TO START EDUCATING YOUR CHILD ABOUT SEX    Nowadays, information about SEX is everywhere and children can be found everywhere. These children are deeply curios about SEX and they are ready to get the full knowledge of it anywhere.   That is why it is important for parent to take it up as their responsibility to teach their children about SEX at an early age.    It is unrealistic to ignore the fact that young people are likely to become sexually active to some extent in their mid teens (12). This is to tell you that education about SEX must start from an early age.   Children in their early age are vulnerable, they don't have enough vocabulary to explain what happened when CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE occurs. Their early age is at risk period to CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE because culture has made many things to be a taboo, that talking to a child about SEX is a taboo which is a lie. When a parent start exposing the child about SEX, the child will be able...

Good evening, my people. How have you been? How was your day? This week has started already, what are your plans? This week I will be taking us on; SEX EDUCATION FOR OUR CHILDREN BY GUARDIANS OR PARENTS . We will be considering these few things; 1. Parent to child relationship 2. When to start educating them? 3. Things to teach them about. And many more. I want us to follow each teaching. God bless you Your dear writer, Christianah Fawale