WHAT CAUSES CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE?

There are many things that leads to child sexual abuse which will be listed here; Indecent dressings
Broken home
Peer pressure
Maltreating the children
Rejection and many more.

If you refuse to show your child love and the only thing you can give her is to curse her daily,she will surely be advised by friends to have sex at an early age to be loved from an opposite. They believe sex is a means of showing love. Show love to your children. Let them feel you.

Indecent dressing is another thing, parent just dress anyhow  for their kids. There are some cloths you're not meant to put on your child because men are moved by what they see,they don't want to know if she is a child or not. Be careful of the kind of cloth you wear for them. That doesn't mean you should dress anyhow for them,be modest and neat.

Broken home is another issue. The child keeps looking for security and a way to feed herself and the only source of feeding is from a man that has been asking for sex from her since but the door has been opened and she will have to open her lap for them. Parents that are considering divorcé, for the sake of your child, don't involve in it.

Let your child be educated about sex from an early to know what to do when abuse is about to happen.


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