HOW A CHILD CAN BE ABUSED (PART 3)?


I wonder who came up with traditions and customs of the Hausa people especially the uneducated ones. How on earth will a parent look at their 8 years daughter and the only thing they could think of is to give her to a cleric in marriage. How on earth will you do so? Is it not painful?

The only good you see coming out of your child's Jerusalem is to give her to a man who has three wives already and your innocent child to be the fourth person. That is a bad idea if you do not know. Repent.

CHILD MARRIAGE is another way in which a child can be abused sexually. There is no way the child will be shown love by the husband that sex won't look like punishment to her.

The girl who is not happy with such a decision will try to run away to secure her life but when caught is another issue. Why must you tamper with the life of this young girl? Allow her to explore.

The cleric will now by force have sex with the young lady, it's an abuse because the child is not ready but because there are ruling powers, she needs to succour.

Parent must be careful, do not rush your child. There is still time for them,all these abuse will definitely have effect on them. They are too young to be abused sexually, show them love.

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