HOW A CHILD CAN BE SEXUALLY ABUSED(part 2)?

Yesterday, I talked about four ways on which a child can be abused and I explained CHILD PORNOGRAPHY. Today,I will continue from where I stopped.


RAPE. Most children that are from a broken home are always a victim of this act. They are been molested and raped because no one to cater for them or speak to. This children need you as their parent, be there for them. It is painful to see a child who is not orphan suffering from parent carelessness.

Rape means having sex with other other party forcefully and this can be painful. The girl can be scared with gun or anything and she will be told not to inform anybody.

I pity most parent that will tell one bike man that you don't know his source to carry your child to school and bring her back everyday and you don't know what's up with them. The bike man that doesn't care can use that opportunity to rape your child at an early age. The child is being abused in that way.

Parent must be careful of how they treat their child. Do not send alone to a man's house to buy something or get something for you. Do not send them on errand in the night, they can be kidnapped and raped.

When you notice, your child keeps visiting a particular man everyday,be careful.

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